Tuesday, February 18, 2014

A Character to always remember


Grandma... Hortense Liles Rouse.. Horty

Sunday morning, the level of sassy went down on planet Earth. Heaven gained a woman with a sense of humor like no other! I had the great pleasure to know grandma for 4 years and will remember her for a life time. I also have the GREAT pleasure of wearing her wedding ring and band that still has her initials hand engraved in with a wedding date from 1947! 

This picture below is one of my favorite memories of grandma that will NEVER be forgotten and has Horty written all over it...

So in preparing for her precious grandsons wedding grandma went shopping to find a beautiful gown and had all intentions of rocking her new frock until she woke up that May 29th morning and remembered it was Memorial Day weekend, so of course she was to wear her American flag sweater! The wedding director said she had a difficult time pinning on grandmas sweater because Horty did not want a flag to be covered! So, please notice the flower delicately placed on her sweet shoulder!

 I knew from this moment my left hand ring finger had big shoes to fill! 

Also on this day she made herself known to the church congregation by sticking her tongue out and making a poot noise at her old husband and his new wife as she set down! And I think then every one attending our wedding knew they were in for an entertaining ceremony!

So, when loved ones pass from one life to the next eternal life in heaven many stories are shared amongst loved ones. One of the best stories shared this week was a sweet man who came to the visitation Monday night and told Clint's dad and his 3 brothers that he was going to miss their mother and that he felt a sod vial bond with Horty because she had a pet name for him. Which he than said she would call him a "Piss ant." They all laughed because this was a normal name of endearment grandma would give people. There are not many 90 year old women calling people Piss Ants and Fart Heads on a daily basis! What a lady!

We can only imagine the ruckus she is causing in heaven!

Again... Rocking her American flag sweater! Love this sweet, loving, sassy lady!!!

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Where did we move to again...

Eastern North Carolina... you would automatically think beach life, humidity, mosquitos, southern accents, "bless your heart"... But you wouldn't think of BLIZZARDS!

So, we ask ourselves.... Did we move to Kinston, NC or to Anchorage, Alaska!?!?

In the past two weeks Eastern North Carolina ("ENC") has been hit with not just one... but TWO big snow storms!  The first storm we had 8 inches stick to the ground and the second storm we had 4 inches stick to the ground and both of these storms had A LOT of ice!  Praise the LORD, we never lost power and we didn't have any pipes freeze!

I LOVE SNOW!  Yes, LOVE it!  I get super excited when the meteorologist says we should see some accumulation.  What accumulates in me is pure JOY and excitment.  As a child this meant hours were spent out on the golf course sledding until our toes were numb.  Now, as an adult it means it is an excuse to do NOTHING!  Our snow activities consisted of: fire making, nap taking, girl scout cookie eating, and laughing at our 4-legged boy loving the snow!  Being in a small town with zero hills it was a blast to walk down the block to West Rd. where there is a slight gradual increase that we call "The Hill."  All of our neighbors, friends, YL friends, and community were there and it was so fun to slow down and just enjoy company with no places to go or things to accomplish on our daily plate.

So, these Snow days that the Rouse House had were really just SLOW days!  Praise the Lord for snow that forces you to sit back, relax, and enjoy the present!

Snow storm #1:

Snow Storm #2

Have a happy and safe day!

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

2014 is the year of weddings!

2014 has been such an exciting year with 4 of my best friends getting married between May and October! It is hard to believe the excitement that is happening inside of my heart for these 4 sweet friends! It is going to be a fun year celebrating through showers, dress shopping, bachelorette weekends, engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, and then finally wedding days! I am SO excited for y'all! Love you Leigh! Love you Anna! Love you Teresa! Love you Kelly! Praying for y'all daily as you prepare for marriage! Can't wait to walk beside each of you preparing for marriage and then living life beside you as a WIVES!


Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Christmas 2013




Merry Christmas to all! What a fun season! SO thankful for this season filled with reminders of Jesus' rescue mission to save us, filled with family, and time to be still! Christmas is the best! The only hard part is that we anticipate its arrival for weeks and then it ends so quickly! We have just taken down our tree, stored the stockings and nativity scenes, unstrung the lights, and redecorated our home preparing for a new season. How sweet it is to remember that we get to celebrate Jesus year a round! It's not just about his birth, but more about his life and his death! So, a New Years resolution for me would be to celebrate CHRISTmas year around! Hold me accountable to it friends! 

Well here are a few fun pictures of our Christmas Eve celebration!

Carter, Clint, and I! Carter is at her peek in believing and anticipating Santa! She brought so much joy to Christmas in her sweet child like faith! Gosh do I want that sweet anticipating joy she has!



Carla came o celebrate Christmas! Such a gift to celebrate and grieve beside my Aunt Carla as we remember Bunkle Buh!

Christmas morning in Cary! 

This is what we wore for the next 4 days as we went into hibernation in Beaufort!

This is the suset we got to watch over Taylor's Creek in Beaufort on Christmas Day night! Such a gift! Sweet memories in this place!


I hope you all had a Very Merry Christmas!!!

Monday, December 23, 2013

The longest 7 minutes of my life

So, Clint and I have a Golden Retriever that we love more than anything in this world (OK that may a stretch... But Reynolds is up there). So, here we are on Goldsboro celebrating Christmas with all the Rouse family! Reynolds in a rare dog that he needs no leash, fence, electric fence, he just stays right in the back yard in the patio. He loves to be near people, so he normally just curls up on the door mat keeping watch on his family. So, the whole family was down in the basement watching the Wolfpack play basketball while Reynolds kept the patio down. It was half time so I decided to make my Mary way upstairs to check on our 4 legged son. Expecting for Reynolds to be in his normal spot, spooning the straw mat. But, he was not there! I stayed calm an just began calling his name.. No answer! I grabbed his treat jar and shook it (this is usually the best "Come" command) but still no R-Man! I freaked! I ran down stairs and told the whole family "Reynolds is gone! Call the cops! Call animal control! Call all animal shelters!" I freaked! Then our sweet family got in 3 cars, hannah and Charlie took Ridgewood, Clint took the back woods and I stood in the back yard crying and shaking the treat jar. Yes, I freaked! Every possible thought went through my head... He has been hit, he has been abducted, a deer has attacked him... All I could do was shake this little plastic jar. At this point I am by myself sitting in the back yard shaking this treat jar whispering "Reynolds!" 

.......

Then all of a sudden the bushes parted and here comes the happiest little 4-legged boy smiling with his tongue hanging out like he was saying "mom, I love hide and go seek!" Oh I was so happy he was home, but I also wanted to  spank this little boy for leaving his beloved door mat! 

So we called in the search committee and celebrated the coming home of our lost pooch!

 
So, this is what I learned through this lost and found saga of Reynolds! We probably have all heard the bible story of the prodigal son! Luke 15 says it like this:

11 Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. 12 The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them.

13 “Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

17 “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father.

But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.

21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’

22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate.24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.

25 “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. 29 But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’

31 “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”


So often I feel like I have related to the younger son who leaves home and is shown grace by his father! Daily I stray from Jesus, squandering all the gifts he has given me, but I am always welcomed with those words saying....But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

But with Reynolds leaving, I totally related to our father and it gave me a new perspective... Why would I ever want to leave the care and the comfort of our Maker and Masters grip. I don't know about you guys, but I am going to stand firm on my "door mat" on my Masters "patio" being told "Welcome home Mary, lets celebrate because you were once lost, but you are now found!"


Welcome home Reynods!

My Best Friend is getting MARRIED!

The day that Leigh Kellerman and I been dreaming about since we were little girls came true on Saturday, December 21st! Her sweet boyfriend proposed in Myrtle Beach! I cannot wait for Leigh and Brently to be husband and wife! Let the wedding planning commence! Clint and I will get to spend Christmas Day night and all morning Thursday celebrating Brent-Leigh's new engagement! We couldn't be more excited for y'all! Can't wait to walk beside y'all in this season of life!

Brently and Leigh's first official picture together while dating!


Then their final picture together while dating and newly ENGAGED! 


Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, December 15, 2013

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

Let the 12 days of Christmas begin! It came so fast! Yesterday was thanksgiving and tomorrow is Christmas! 

Clint and I have had a lot of fun preparing for Christmas in Ktown and starting new traditions. We cut down our Christmas tree. 
I decided to be crafty and make a new burlap tree skirt. For a not so crafty person it was a crafty afternoon. Here was the final product...
It was so easy, literally no sewing required just a hot glue gun! 

It is December 15th and have already been to 4 Christmas parties with friends and family. So, the celebration has begun!

I love this season of Advent, building up and anticipating Christmas! I have been reading a devotion by She Reads Truth all about Emmanuel: God with us! That Jesus was always the plan to come and be the God among us! This is one of the nuggets I loved the other morning...
I love that truth that we are imperfect vessels set to be filled with a perfect God! Just like how God used Mary to full with Jesus to be brought into this world! Mary was no princess in this world, but was seen by god as a princess of the most high God!

And a little sneak peek to Christmas card pictures!




Just walking through this life together! There is no other human being in this world I would want to spend all my time and nights with.