Saturday, October 5, 2013

27th Birthday Celebrations

27... Am I really already 27? On the inside I feel like I am 15. My voice makes me sound like an 8 year old. 75% of my friends are under the age of 21. So, am I really 27? Sounds so old and mature... 

Well, if you didn't know this about me. I love birthdays! Growing up my parents always made our birthdays a big celebration and event, so I always get so excited when October 1st comes around!  And this was a fun year of celebrations!!! It all started with a home state game last weekend where Mom, BD, Thom, Margaret, carter, Clint and I tailgated and celebrated. This was so fun, great weather, and just great to be together! 
Here are a few highlights! Saw sweet college friends! Carter met a real cheerleader! And the Pack won!

Then on my actual day Clint and I went to dinner in Greenville to a Japanese restaurant! SO good! That night some new kinston girl friends took me to desert at the Chef and the farmer!!SO good! This is a really nice restaurant in K-town! They have a new TV show on PBS you should all watch, The Chefs Life! Any ways, the chocolate cake was incredible! Here are a few pictures from that day:
Bojangles for breakfast, Japanese for supper, and The Chef for desert!

Then this past Thursday night hannah and Charlie took us out to dinner to celebrate in Kinston. K-town has some great restaurants! We ate at the new Asian place, Ginger 108... So good! Biggie and Betty came as well and were so sweet! So thankful for this family that has embraced me so well!

Thank y'all so much for making my birthday so special! I really felt so loved by your cards, texts, posts, etc! 

And... If you need a laugh... Check out this photo from the face juggler app!

Yes! This is biggie and Clint's face on each others bodies! Many belly laughs this morning at breakfast!

Friday, September 20, 2013

20 Years!

Happy 20th wedding anniversary to Mom and Bigdaddy! Mimi and Pop-pop! Y'all are so loved! To celebrate this special occasion Thom, Margaret, Carter, Stewart, Karla, Phoebe James, Clint, and I had supper in Cary! It was such a sweet day to celebrate a day we all remember! Here is a photo for your viewing enjoyment!

 September 12, 1993

Stewart, Thom, Mary Kathryn, Mom, Lee, ben, and Matt 


Life in Kinston (take 2)

2 words: Dove Season! Clint has done some dove hunting. We have about 30 little birdy breasts in our freezer. I was VERY skeptical of eating these peace symbol birds for supper... But wow! They were DELICIOUS!!! Clint can cook! He wrapped these little puppies in bacon, put some cheese, and a jalepeneo on it... Incredible! So, I have encouraged Clint to dove hunt as often as he can. Seriously..contact work? Dove hunt! Donor care? Dove hunt! Date night? Dove hunt! no just kidding not date night! I would I have never thought I would be craving some fresh shot dove... I guess it is official: I am an ENC girl!

Here is a picture time frame of the birds!




Eat More Dove!

And then the prettiest bird dog out there who sleeps at Clint's feet while on the hunt:

Reynolds!


Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Women's weekend 2013

For 7 years my mama and I have been traveling to Windy Gap for Women's Weekend. This is such a sweet weekend to be together and to be refreshed by Jesus's sweet grace. This years theme was all about our stories and that our little stories are a part of the lords much bigger story! It was so fun to discuss with mom and Mary Jane how all of our stories are intertwined together, that our stories have influenced each others. Mary Jane and mom are sweet sweet soul sisters that live behind each other, so it is so fun to be on this retreat with them! 

Windy Gap is a special place with so many memories and it is so fun to think of the stories that are left to be told at this sacred place. Bring it on!

So, a few highlights from the weekend:
-feeling like little girls with mom and MJ (taking jumping pictures)
-ELLIE HOLCOMB (aka: my girl crush)
-surprise friends at the retreat that I didn't know would be there, Ashley Ramsey who just moves to georgia with her hubby!
-solitude all day Saturday to sit by the pool and REST!
-cold mountain air and being able to wet sweaters!
-sweet Raleigh friends on work crew!
-eating lunch at the grove park in
-visiting with Stewart, Karla, and Phoebe James on the way home!

Here are a few pics from my phone, more pics from camera will be uploaded later!


The Bunk Monkeys:


Ellie! Love how genuine she is, she is the first to say she doesn't have it all together! Her heart for Jesus is so evident in the way she performs!

I love the program for women's weekend is always slightly inappropriate and 100% directed towards women. Theseare the   Jeans!

Lauren Richards! I love her!

The Grove Park Inn!

 
The Kincaid Family!

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

From where I sit


This is where I have been sitting all morning. What a gift to sit in this beautiful place, listening to the waves, and reading. With Clint being a young life area director we are invited for a staff conference at Ocean Isle and while Clint and the other staffers are in a meeting I have chosen to be a little introvert and sit. Just sit! And it has been a gift to just sit and be present. It has hit me that we have lived in K-town for a month and a half, and we have been going hard. Between moving, unpacking, YL trips, beginning new jobs, making new friends, taking every chance we get to see family, saying yes to every opportunity in town to meet new people, it has been awesome, but also exhausting. So, sitting this morning has been relaxing, refreshing, and I have been reminded of whom has called me. One of my favorite books is Love Does by Bob Goff, such a great book! A fun quote this morning that got me thinking was, "will you take what you think defines you, leave it behind, and let ME define who you are instead." What a great thought to sit in and be reminded that I am not defined by what I do, why I have, or WHERE I LIVE! Jesus is the defining thing of my life, of our marriage, and of our residency! I hope that is an encouraging thought for you today!

I have also been sitting in Psalm 103 as I sit here, this is a hefty copy and paste that is about to happen, but it is SO GOOD!

Let all that I am praise the Lord; with my whole heart, I will praise his holy name. Let all that I am praise the Lord; may I never forget the good things he does for me. He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases. He redeems me from death and crowns me with love and tender mercies. He fills my life with good things. My youth is renewed like the eagle’s! The Lord gives righteousness and justice to all who are treated unfairly. He revealed his character to Moses and his deeds to the people of Israel. The Lord is compassionate and merciful, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. He will not constantly accuse us, nor remain angry forever. He does not punish us for all our sins; he does not deal harshly with us, as we deserve. For his unfailing love toward those who fear him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth. He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. The Lord is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him. For he knows how weak we are; he remembers we are only dust. Our days on earth are like grass; like wildflowers, we bloom and die. The wind blows, and we are gone— as though we had never been here. But the love of the Lord remains forever with those who fear him. His salvation extends to the children’s children of those who are faithful to his covenant, of those who obey his commandments! The Lord has made the heavens his throne; from there he rules over everything. Praise the Lord, you angels, you mighty ones who carry out his plans, listening for each of his commands. Yes, praise the Lord, you armies of angels who serve him and do his will! Praise the Lord, everything he has created, everything in all his kingdom. Let all that I am praise the Lord. (Psalms 103:1-22 NLT)

Sunday, September 1, 2013

First Home Wolfpack Football Game!

Fun fact for you today, the Rouse House loves the Wolfpack! Specifically, Carter-Finley Stadium! Almost 3 years ago we became engaged in the Carter-Finley stadium! Flash back for you:


It is so fun to watch the Wolfpack play and remember this fun moment!

So, today was the season opener for N.C. State football! It was beautiful and it was HOT! 

Clint and I invited our sweet friends Kelly and Eric Hovis to go with us to the game! We tailgated and enjoyed time with our friends.  The Hovis family is preparing to leave in 5 days to live in Central Asia!I So thankful for their obedient hearts! We are praying for y'all as you prepare to leave! You should follow the Hovis family blog: http://ericandkellyhovis.blogspot.com/

Here are a few fun pictures of our afternoon with Kelly and Eric!

Pre-sweat shot

SO thankful for this friend! You will be the Tammy Taylor of Central Asia!

Go pack!!


Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Windy Gap Leaders Weekend

Let us begin by saying Windy Gap is SO far away from Kinston! But, it is totally worth the long car ride to end up at Clint and I's favorite place! We traveled the long 6.5 hours from K-Town to Weaver-Vegas with our new friends! Our new friends has never experienced anything Young Life let alone Young Life camp! Our friends Katie, Amanda, Dacie, Jess, Walker, Brian, Clint, and I were the representatives from Lenoir Greene Young Life. We had a blast getting to know one another better, becoming familiar with Young Life, drawing closer to Jesus, and just laughing!!!! We for real were just like campers! We did the camp hike, hiked to plunge, did the ropes course, zip line, blobbed! We did it all! 

Here are a few pictures of the weekend!


The crew! Such fun friends to do ministry beside! Trusting The Lord for what he has next for all of us!

  This was on our hike, or as I told them "it's just like a walk up a ramp!" My new friends did not agree, it was a pretty difficult hike! Please notice Clint and Walkers twin like characteristics (bottom left picture)! 

This butterfly was on my shoulder the whole time! Let me tell you, I love butterflies! 

Chris Cockerham was the speaker for the weekend. Chris was a Young Life leader all 4 years while I was in high school, his precious wife Jenni was my Young Life leader, and Chris married Clint and I. He is a big deal to say the least! He gave us an incredible nugget...

"God is on a search for the lost and his mission is to make a search committee! This is our unique calling, we are on Gods search committee!"

Chris also shared a poem called "I Stand By The Door" by Sam Shumaker


I stand by the door. 
I neither go too far in, nor stay too far out, 
The door is the most important door in the world- 
It is the door through which people walk when they find God. 
There's no use my going way inside, and staying there, 
When so many are still outside and they, as much as I, 
Crave to know where the door is. 
And all that so many ever find 
Is only the wall where a door ought to be. 
They creep along the wall like blind people, 
With outstretched, groping hands. 
Feeling for a door, knowing there must be a door, 
Yet they never find it ... 
So I stand by the door.

The most tremendous thing in the world 
Is for people to find that door--the door to God. 
The most important thing any person can do 
Is to take hold of one of those blind, groping hands, 
And put it on the latch--the latch that only clicks 
And opens to the person's own touch. 
People die outside that door, as starving beggars die 
On cold nights in cruel cities in the dead of winter— 
Die for want of what is within their grasp. 
They live, on the other side of it--live because they have not found it. 
Nothing else matters compared to helping them find it, 
And open it, and walk in, and find Him ... 
So I stand by the door.

Go in, great saints, go all the way in-- 
Go way down into the cavernous cellars, 
And way up into the spacious attics-- 
It is a vast roomy house, this house where God is. 
Go into the deepest of hidden casements, 
Of withdrawal, of silence, of sainthood. 
Some must inhabit those inner rooms. 
And know the depths and heights of God, 
And call outside to the rest of us how wonderful it is. 
Sometimes I take a deeper look in, 
Sometimes venture in a little farther; 
But my place seems closer to the opening ... 
So I stand by the door.

There is another reason why I stand there. 
Some people get part way in and become afraid 
Lest God and the zeal of His house devour them 
For God is so very great, and asks all of us. 
And these people feel a cosmic claustrophobia, 
And want to get out. "Let me out!" they cry, 
And the people way inside only terrify, them more. 
Somebody must be by the door to tell them that they are spoiled 
For the old life, they have seen too much: 
Once taste God, and nothing but God will do any more. 
Somebody must be watching for the frightened 
Who seek to sneak out just where they came in, 
To tell them how much better it is inside. 
The people too far in do not see how near these are 
To leaving--preoccupied with the wonder of it all. 
Somebody must watch for those who have entered the door, 
But would like to run away. So for them, too, 
I stand by the door.

I admire the people who go way in. 
But I wish they would not forget how it was 
Before they got in. Then they would be able to help 
The people who have not, yet even found the door, 
Or the people who want to run away again from God, 
You can go in too deeply, and stay in too long, 
And forget the people outside the door. 
As for me, I shall take my old accustomed place, 
Near enough to God to hear Him, and know He is there, 
But not so far from people as not to hear them, 
And remember they are there, too. 
Where? Outside the door-- 
Thousands of them, millions of them. 
But--more important for me-- 
One of them, two of them, ten of them, 
Whose hands I am intended to put on the latch. 
So I shall stand by the door and wait 
For those who seek it. 
"I had rather be a door-keeper ..." 
So I stand by the door.